
Learn feelings words
Children move from mad, sad and glad to closer words like frustrated, disappointed and proud.
Emotion Explorers is a small-group programme for Years 5 and 6, where children practise noticing feelings, naming them precisely and choosing a helpful next step.


Children move from mad, sad and glad to closer words like frustrated, disappointed and proud.
Once children know what they're feeling, they practise choosing one small, helpful thing to do next.
Families hear what the group has been working on, so the same feelings words can be used at home. There's no homework.
Four made-up friends from the world of Emotion Explorers.


Tahlia is about 11, with curly hair that never quite stays tied back and round glasses that miss very little. She's usually the first to notice when something has changed, and she says so plainly. Her friends have learned it's worth listening when she does.

Hamish is about 10, freckled, with a sun-touched nose and runners that are always a bit dusty. He's steady company, the friend who sticks around when a game goes wrong. When something he's been trying finally works, he can't quite hide how proud he is.

Anika is about 11 and wears her long black hair in a low ponytail, usually with a grey cardigan over the top. When something catches her interest, she leans in and asks one more question, then another. She'd rather understand a thing properly than just be told the answer.

Darcy is about 10 and easy-going most of the time, the first to laugh and the last to make a fuss. When something he was really hoping for doesn't happen, though, it can hit him hard. He's still working out what to do with that, like most of us.
Each session starts with a friendly welcome. Nobody has to share anything they'd rather keep private.
The group looks for a closer word for a feeling, like frustrated or furious instead of mad.
Children try short, hands-on activities together, using made-up characters and situations, never real stories.
When your child says they're mad, ask whether it feels more like irritated, frustrated or disappointed. Each one points to a different next step.
I'm Jakob Shanks. I'm a chaplain with a Bachelor of Social Science (Psychology) and a Bachelor of Behavioural Science (Psychology) (Honours), and I hold a Working with Children card and an NDIS Worker Screening card. I write the Steady Session programmes, and I plan to train facilitators from after the first pilot.